Wednesday 9 October 2013

More light!

We managed to get my desk moved upstairs last night, after adjusting the lounge around slightly.

Looks good now, and I'll have a bit more daylight now,,,

And yes, that is The Backyardigans on for Ryder again :-)

Tuesday 8 October 2013

Day-to-day life

As someone who works remotely to the Isle of Man from home in Utah, I work around 6 hours a day, starting at 6am or 7am, depending on how tired I am :-), which ties in to the afternoons in the Isle of Man, so there is some crossover for work questions.

Mrs Rallybug goes to work at around 8.30 each morning, so I have control of the Buglet from around 7.30am. Juggling keeping him amused/occupied, fed, and changed while still trying to work is a true balancing act...  In some ways, I live for the moments where we goes down for a nap - on any given day that can be 30 minutes all the way to a couple of hours that I can work freely.

On the flipside, standing him up facing me, or lying him back against my raised thighs, seeing his smiles and hearing his noises when I sing him Old McDonald are true moments of joy.

Oh, and he is, on occasion, transfixed by The Backyardigans - thank goodness for Amazon Prime, $79 a year well spent!

We're going to move my desk up from the dungeon (sorry, basement) to the lounge tonight, so that he can look out the window more, and get more play time in his jungle Exersaucer or in the piano floor gym. It also means that, as we head into the short Winter days, we'll both be able to see as much light as possible, rather than the small amount from the 2' x 6' windows in the basement...

Monday 7 October 2013

Well, we're nearly 3.5 months in since Ryder's arrival on this planet, and maybe it's time to start blogging again - who knows, I might even keep it up, this time!

3.5 months... Three and a half months... 16 weeks... 108 days...

I've been the work-from-home Dad ever since my gorgeous wife went back to work just before R was 6 weeks old, and it's had its trials and tribulations, but overall, I'm loving it. Those first smiles, giggles, outright lop-sided grins, and the noises, oh the noises - they're to die for!

He arrived on our planet weighing in at 7lb 12oz, and had reached 13lb on his three month anniversary. I think he's been continuing since then quite nicely, as he's dropped the 0-3 month clothes, and is even wearing 6-12 month socks! Big Foot - meet the Hendersons!

Of course, nap time = productive time for Daddy. Washing the dishes, doing laundry including the cloth diapers that he seems to go through like nobody's business...

One thing that I'm definitely looking forward to? When R can properly poop without what appears to be pain :-(

Friday 2 September 2011

The first week..

Boy, it's been warm in Utah!  Dumb comment, I suppose - a desert state in August is warm, who knew? lol But a few days before Gininda came over for my emigration flight, the temps in the UK were down to low 50s fahrenheit, and I arrived to mid 90s!

Gin had the following day off, so I got my first Utah driving experience heading off to grocery stores etc.

Every day since, Gin has taken the car to work as I want my lie-ins in the mornings lol But I've been the driver most nights when we've gone to do stuff, whether it be shopping for personal stuff or wedding stuff.

Weather might've now broken - we're down to 79 during the day time today, which is much more comfortable :-)

Focus now turns to vehicles for myself - motorcycle and VW camper, probably.  Just have to check the local classifieds to see what I fancy and what's available.

Arrived!

Arrived and settled on 23 August, 2011

DHL picked up my 11 boxes of stuff on Monday morning at about 11.30, so the journey really started. Loaded up at 6.45am Tuesday morning for the journey to LHR for the flight - Mum, Dad and my brother came with us, brother driving a rented Ford Galaxy to get all of us plus luggage in.

Got into Chicago O'Hare a few minutes early and headed off for Immigration.

I cornered a CBP officer and confirmed with him that I needed to complete a white I-94 and that the customs declaration only needed to have the back completed if I was bringing with me things that I'd had for less than a year or was planning on selling in the US.

Joined the immigration queue - we actually joined the USC/LPR queue as they said it didn't matter which. Got a youngish female CBP officer who took the brown envelope, opened it and started stamping forms left, right and centre. She chatted away with the two of us (Gin had come over to the UK a few days before so that we could journey back together), stamped everything that needed to be stamped and sent us on our way.

Picked up the bags from the carousel and went through to the customs point - they looked at the declarations, and waved is on through - even with 4 large suitcases, two cabin cases and two backpacks

No stresses at immigration/customs whatsoever! No secondary, nothing. Of course, that hadn't stopped me getting stressed about what could happen when the plane was coming in to land...

Over 3 hours at O'Hare, then onward flight to SLC where we were picked up by Gin's parents in her dad's old pick-up with topper (the only vehicle big enough for 4 people plus all the luggage.

Home and in bed by about 10.30pm.

Wednesday, and we were up early (the joys of an early night!) ready for errands - Gin handed me the keys to the car so that I could start getting used to driving in the US (only done it once before for a week on holiday) and we were off up to the county seat for the marriage license, then T-Mobile for my new sim card (Gin and her family are on T-Mob so it's easier, even though I do lose 3G from my iPhone), and finally grocery stores for bits and pieces.

Got home for lunch and there were the 11 boxes dumped on the drive - a little battered and bruised from their journeys though. We had lunch and then dived into the boxes - all 11 unpacked and some of the stuff sorted away by dinner time. Only a few breakages (5 glasses, a mug, a Le Creuset baking dish and a sponge tin dented to buggery), so not too bad all considered.

The stresses and strains then left me in bed all day yesterday suffering, but I'm better today, so hopefully it'll all be OK now, and, of course, Gin is off work as it's the weekend from tonight.

Only thing left to sort is my health insurance - the company I was going to go with (Humana) requires me to have lived in the US for 6 months prior to taking out the insurance, so back to square one. Gin's health insurance from her employer is a lot more money to add me on than the quotes I was getting, so if we can beat that, it'd be good. More to look into tonight and this weekend, I think - wonder if I'll have to speak to an insurance agent...

All photos are being added here

Wednesday 17 August 2011

Closer, ever closer

Well, with 6 days until my emigration flight, checklist time:

Motorbike sold a couple months ago
Car sold last Saturday
DHL booked to collect 11 boxes of household/personal effects on Monday 22nd August
Last run of shredding of paperwork etc done
Memberships and direct debits cancelled

Gin arrives Friday early evening, two cases and a cabin case in tow.
Family party lunchtime on Saturday
Out with my friends for a meal Sunday night

Leave early Tuesday morning for Heathrow and the flight through Chicago to Salt Lake City :-)

Wednesday 27 July 2011

Counting down

Well, since approval, I've been back to the Isle of Man for work, and then, once I got notification that the passport, visa and documents were with the courier, Gin and I booked out flights.

Gin is flying over on the 18th August, arriving 19th, we have a family get-together on the 21st, the boxes should be picked up by the courier company on the 22nd, and we fly out on the 23rd!

12.50pm flight from LHR to OHD (Chicago), 4 hour stop-over to pass immigration, then OHD to SLC, arriving at my new home airport at 9.30pm local time!

It's really real now :-)

Wedding invitiations have been sent, car is going up for sale, ISA has been closed...